Friday, December 31, 2010
new year !!
Today is a gift,
Tomorrow is a hope,
Let’s begin New Year 2011
With faith, love and peace...
Faith makes all things Possible,
Hope makes all things Work,
Love makes all things Beautiful,
May you have all three this?
New Year 2011
No regret about the past..
No fear about the future..
New hopes and dreams 2011..
Come on..
Goodbye 2010, Welcome 2011 ^^
Open hearts receive love,
Open minds receive Wisdom,
Open hands receive Gifts and,
Special friends receive my greeting...
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Tuesday, December 21, 2010
冬至快乐
Friday, December 17, 2010
《普通话正音培训》中国青岛
21天就酱过去了……有点舍不得……
在那里的生活可说是很充实,再多的金钱也买不到我们的美好回忆和知识……
‘迷路’事件让我们的回忆里留下了不可磨灭的甜蜜录,同时让我们四朵金花的友谊更受到肯定……
耶……我们结业了……
美中不足的是:
0.5之差让我和二级乙等说声再见,心里有点不平衡 =p
天哪,为什么会发生此事在我身上?!
我想我的朋友被我一直埋怨0.5而感到烦了,哇哇……
很开心认识了很多很多的资深老师们……
我很珍惜这来得不易的缘分……
没人能取代记忆中的你我,和那段21天的美好回忆……
那欢笑荣耀换一句誓言:有缘再见=】
在这,要谢谢组办单位……
我的朋友们,此学习是很值得的!
谢谢李志鹏老师-我的组长:
一个幽默风趣的老师、我们的camera man、更是一个很照顾四朵金花的好好老师……
老师,您的金玉良言我会听进去的……有机会的话,“咱们”会去探望您……
同时也要谢谢两兄弟:
谢谢他们不厌其烦地借我们laptop上网、当我们的摄影师……
也谢谢在座的每一位老师们,当我生病时,老师们的vitamin C、餐具、一句慰问的话,深深打动我心底……
有缘和诗人-田思先生同班上课,感到特别兴奋……
虽然在同一班,但成绩还是那么差……伤心两字足以形容现在的心情=.=
p/s:回到家收到一份从UK寄来的包裹,好开心也很surprise……一年了,谢谢我的爱……
在那里的生活可说是很充实,再多的金钱也买不到我们的美好回忆和知识……
‘迷路’事件让我们的回忆里留下了不可磨灭的甜蜜录,同时让我们四朵金花的友谊更受到肯定……
耶……我们结业了……
美中不足的是:
0.5之差让我和二级乙等说声再见,心里有点不平衡 =p
天哪,为什么会发生此事在我身上?!
我想我的朋友被我一直埋怨0.5而感到烦了,哇哇……
很开心认识了很多很多的资深老师们……
我很珍惜这来得不易的缘分……
没人能取代记忆中的你我,和那段21天的美好回忆……
那欢笑荣耀换一句誓言:有缘再见=】
在这,要谢谢组办单位……
我的朋友们,此学习是很值得的!
谢谢李志鹏老师-我的组长:
一个幽默风趣的老师、我们的camera man、更是一个很照顾四朵金花的好好老师……
老师,您的金玉良言我会听进去的……有机会的话,“咱们”会去探望您……
同时也要谢谢两兄弟:
谢谢他们不厌其烦地借我们laptop上网、当我们的摄影师……
也谢谢在座的每一位老师们,当我生病时,老师们的vitamin C、餐具、一句慰问的话,深深打动我心底……
有缘和诗人-田思先生同班上课,感到特别兴奋……
虽然在同一班,但成绩还是那么差……伤心两字足以形容现在的心情=.=
p/s:回到家收到一份从UK寄来的包裹,好开心也很surprise……一年了,谢谢我的爱……
Sunday, November 21, 2010
心情札记有感而发之十
‘Ah Cin (大家都这样叫我的)ah,你就好咯…又有车,又有新的相机。’
那天大家在研究我的新的相机,丽晶突然这样说……
还真的是噢!因为要去中国参加长达20天的《普通话正音培训班》,所以就埋怨说没有好的相机,毕竟本小姐第一次搭飞机嘛……
没想到,爸爸最终还是买了新相机给我……
登登登登……这就是‘它’咯 ^^
谢谢爹哋,谢谢妈咪……
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唉……如果哪天我当上了人家的妈咪,我会向妈咪一样……
为了子女忙进忙出吗?
为子女的一句话费劲脑子去实现吗?
费尽心思准备不同的三餐吗?
为子女忙这个、那个、这个……
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呼呼呼!!!
最近烦烦烦……爱情……烦恼……
看到朋友的爱情步入危险……再看看自己的……
我无言……
那天大家在研究我的新的相机,丽晶突然这样说……
还真的是噢!因为要去中国参加长达20天的《普通话正音培训班》,所以就埋怨说没有好的相机,毕竟本小姐第一次搭飞机嘛……
没想到,爸爸最终还是买了新相机给我……
登登登登……这就是‘它’咯 ^^
谢谢爹哋,谢谢妈咪……
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唉……如果哪天我当上了人家的妈咪,我会向妈咪一样……
为了子女忙进忙出吗?
为子女的一句话费劲脑子去实现吗?
费尽心思准备不同的三餐吗?
为子女忙这个、那个、这个……
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呼呼呼!!!
最近烦烦烦……爱情……烦恼……
看到朋友的爱情步入危险……再看看自己的……
我无言……
Thursday, November 4, 2010
考试
突然间回想起小学时参加歌唱比赛的童谣 - ‘读书郎’
歌曲是这样的:
小嘛小儿郎……背着那书包进学堂……
不怕太阳晒……也不怕那风雨狂……
只怕那先生骂我懒啊……没有学问,也无脸见爹娘……
瞬时,觉得时间过得好快……
以前的我,不怎么怕考试……因为我会自动自发去读书(怕输嘛)=p
现在的我变得好怕考试!因为我总是临时抱佛脚(懒惰虫跑出来了嘛)=p
所以说,有时怕输是好事 =】
唉……考试!我不想考试!
有一次在fb一位小学朋友聊起……
他:最近怎样了?
我:唉,考试咯……你就好啦,做工了就不用考试了。
他:出来社会工作就等于天天考试啦!你是不会懂的……
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或许现在的我真的不懂,但我想工作的压力肯定比读书来得大吧……
哇哇哇~陈慧婷……你还不快快读书,不要到时才哭啦!!!!
歌曲是这样的:
小嘛小儿郎……背着那书包进学堂……
不怕太阳晒……也不怕那风雨狂……
只怕那先生骂我懒啊……没有学问,也无脸见爹娘……
瞬时,觉得时间过得好快……
以前的我,不怎么怕考试……因为我会自动自发去读书(怕输嘛)=p
现在的我变得好怕考试!因为我总是临时抱佛脚(懒惰虫跑出来了嘛)=p
所以说,有时怕输是好事 =】
唉……考试!我不想考试!
有一次在fb一位小学朋友聊起……
他:最近怎样了?
我:唉,考试咯……你就好啦,做工了就不用考试了。
他:出来社会工作就等于天天考试啦!你是不会懂的……
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或许现在的我真的不懂,但我想工作的压力肯定比读书来得大吧……
哇哇哇~陈慧婷……你还不快快读书,不要到时才哭啦!!!!
Friday, October 29, 2010
small story ♥
~A story of Pencil and Eraser~
Pencil : I'm sorry.
Eraser : For what? You didn't do anything wrong.
Pencil : I'm sorry coz you get hurt because of me. Whenever i made a mistake, you are always there to erase it. But as you make my mistake vanish, you lose a part of yourself. You get smaller and smaller each time.
Eraser : That's true, but i don't really mind. You see, i was made to do this, i was made to help you whenever you do something wrong. Even though one day i know i'll be gone and you'll replace me with a new one, i'm actually happy with my job. So please, stop worrying, i hate seeing you sad!
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Did anyone appear in your mind after read the conversation between pencil and erase? Yes, i did..haha..Is you..No doubt =p
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Erm.. Parents are like the eraser where as their children are the pencil. They're always there for their children, cleaning up their mistake. Sometimes along the way, they get hurt and become smaller (older).
All i wanna say is..
i LOVE you my daddy and mummy ♥
May we argue for entertainment and knowing each others more but not too often =p
Cheerrr ^^
Pencil : I'm sorry.
Eraser : For what? You didn't do anything wrong.
Pencil : I'm sorry coz you get hurt because of me. Whenever i made a mistake, you are always there to erase it. But as you make my mistake vanish, you lose a part of yourself. You get smaller and smaller each time.
Eraser : That's true, but i don't really mind. You see, i was made to do this, i was made to help you whenever you do something wrong. Even though one day i know i'll be gone and you'll replace me with a new one, i'm actually happy with my job. So please, stop worrying, i hate seeing you sad!
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Did anyone appear in your mind after read the conversation between pencil and erase? Yes, i did..haha..Is you..No doubt =p
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Erm.. Parents are like the eraser where as their children are the pencil. They're always there for their children, cleaning up their mistake. Sometimes along the way, they get hurt and become smaller (older).
All i wanna say is..
i LOVE you my daddy and mummy ♥
May we argue for entertainment and knowing each others more but not too often =p
Cheerrr ^^
Monday, October 25, 2010
有感而发
无意间,发现一个好朋友的初恋情人的博客!
不懂那位女朋友有新的对象了吗,但直觉告诉我我的那位男性朋友依然还爱着她……
如果没错的话,他们分开的日子大约有一年左右吧……
认识他们的那一刹那,觉得他们好般配噢~
男的帅,女的美……
虽然和他们在一起的日子不久,但在营中所处理的大小事务里,可看得出他们很有才干、有本事……打从心里佩服与欣赏他们 XD
不懂要怎么说,只想告诉他们-
‘爱情’……一个非常简单的字,却得来不容易……
我们在乎,不想失去,因为我们想努力经营来得不易的美丽邂逅……
就算到最后实现梦想的机会渺茫,但还是要怀抱梦想……
朋友:就算绕再大的路,属于您的,终究会回来的!
衷心祝福我的好朋友~~要开开心心~~
p/s :最近的我·不知怎么了·一直sms打扰他·如带来任何不便·这里道个歉·你的回复·我很开心·谢谢您,好朋友·
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回想自己……
总觉得上天很眷顾我,21年了……
让我的身边总围绕着关心我的人……也许是父母所积来的福报吧 ^^
可是人总是不知足,包括我在内!!
明明身边已有很好的,但却想要更好的!!
最怕最后失去很好的才哭干眼泪也太迟了!!
我……总无法自拔地想追求更好的……
我……往往会不经意地伤害身边关心我的人……
我……很喜欢胡思乱想,想那些不可能实现的梦……
天啊……
可不可以,让我……
知足、惜福、常乐?
p/s :收到一封从UK寄来的简单相片和文字,我有……感动到!!!谢谢爱 ♥
Friday, October 22, 2010
朗读比赛
达鲁拉曼校区
第一届-朗读比赛
October 20, 2010
从露营回来,就听到朗读比赛这四个字时,觉得好累,因为必须在4天内交上演示文稿和配乐(原本是2天,多谢周讲师的宽容)。我们想要在师范学院里留下美好的回忆和经验,就不管三七二十一,一次过报名了4项比赛。那时的我们志在拿经验,不在赢奖!
第一次参加朗读比赛的我,竟然毛遂自荐参加了群读童诗:《搬家》及独读小故事:《其实有钱人可能很穷》
在师范学院读了三年的我,昨天是我和我的室友们献上了我们的“第一次” :
第一次参与朗读比赛
第一次一起制作演示文稿和配乐
第一次在学姐、学妹、学弟面前朗读
第一次卸下我们平时的疯疯癫癫的一面,认真的朗读
第一次在两天的时间内完成4个演示文稿和配乐以及练习
第一次心跳加速(因为个人朗读)
第一次晚餐吃不完(因为紧张)
许许多多的第一次换来了:
儿童诗最佳朗读者 奖
儿童诗最佳演示文稿和配乐 奖
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这次的朗读比赛让我大开眼界,学妹们的朗读真的很好,尤其是平时可以和我们嬉皮笑脸的,但当她们开口朗读时,那甜美的声音让我们嘴巴张得大大的!
原以为我们没有机会了,原以为我们就像是来突出其他队伍的衬托者!但成绩公布时,我们都吓了一跳!
周讲师,3位评判讲师,讲师,各位委员们,参赛者们:恭喜你们,我们大家都献上了最精彩的20102010表演~
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第一届-朗读比赛
October 20, 2010
从露营回来,就听到朗读比赛这四个字时,觉得好累,因为必须在4天内交上演示文稿和配乐(原本是2天,多谢周讲师的宽容)。我们想要在师范学院里留下美好的回忆和经验,就不管三七二十一,一次过报名了4项比赛。那时的我们志在拿经验,不在赢奖!
第一次参加朗读比赛的我,竟然毛遂自荐参加了群读童诗:《搬家》及独读小故事:《其实有钱人可能很穷》
在师范学院读了三年的我,昨天是我和我的室友们献上了我们的“第一次” :
第一次参与朗读比赛
第一次一起制作演示文稿和配乐
第一次在学姐、学妹、学弟面前朗读
第一次卸下我们平时的疯疯癫癫的一面,认真的朗读
第一次在两天的时间内完成4个演示文稿和配乐以及练习
第一次心跳加速(因为个人朗读)
第一次晚餐吃不完(因为紧张)
许许多多的第一次换来了:
儿童诗最佳朗读者 奖
儿童诗最佳演示文稿和配乐 奖
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这次的朗读比赛让我大开眼界,学妹们的朗读真的很好,尤其是平时可以和我们嬉皮笑脸的,但当她们开口朗读时,那甜美的声音让我们嘴巴张得大大的!
原以为我们没有机会了,原以为我们就像是来突出其他队伍的衬托者!但成绩公布时,我们都吓了一跳!
周讲师,3位评判讲师,讲师,各位委员们,参赛者们:恭喜你们,我们大家都献上了最精彩的20102010表演~
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Wednesday, October 20, 2010
surprise =]
today dun have to go to school..so me and Yih Rui went to tasik for jogging at 7.30am ..
we run for two round and i'm so tired after one round..
really long time no exercise already, my steaminess have become worse day by day =[ argh !!!!
after jogging around 8.30am, we went to pasar there to buy some vege and present for celebrate 3 of my housemate where their b'day is during holiday~
we celebrate earlier for them due to once finish our exam, everyone will bck to hometown..
we walk until 11am then we straight go to senior's house to start our 'surprise'..
yih rui cook the tomyam and i cook three dishes..
which is :
- vege (cai hua) with source
- vege (xiao bai cai) with source
- meat with potato
- tomyam mee
after cook than we cook rice and buy some balloon..
we move those food to Xiao Juan's house..
yih rui and me tell lies to them and tell them we are going to outside to have lunch..wait at Xiao Juan's house..
1st, 3 of them need find all the balloon at dining room to make it broke because gt one clue inside the balloons to get their present..
wah pei - she is so brave, using hand to broke it..
li ching & yun hea - using fork..
after that, they start to having lunch..
so happy..coz they say my dishes are so delicious..
they even ask me how to cook the meat with potato =]
i'm so so happy ^^
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happy earlier b'day to Li Ching - Yun Hea - Wah Pei
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we run for two round and i'm so tired after one round..
really long time no exercise already, my steaminess have become worse day by day =[ argh !!!!
after jogging around 8.30am, we went to pasar there to buy some vege and present for celebrate 3 of my housemate where their b'day is during holiday~
we celebrate earlier for them due to once finish our exam, everyone will bck to hometown..
we walk until 11am then we straight go to senior's house to start our 'surprise'..
yih rui cook the tomyam and i cook three dishes..
which is :
- vege (cai hua) with source
- vege (xiao bai cai) with source
- meat with potato
- tomyam mee
after cook than we cook rice and buy some balloon..
we move those food to Xiao Juan's house..
yih rui and me tell lies to them and tell them we are going to outside to have lunch..wait at Xiao Juan's house..
1st, 3 of them need find all the balloon at dining room to make it broke because gt one clue inside the balloons to get their present..
wah pei - she is so brave, using hand to broke it..
li ching & yun hea - using fork..
after that, they start to having lunch..
so happy..coz they say my dishes are so delicious..
they even ask me how to cook the meat with potato =]
i'm so so happy ^^
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happy earlier b'day to Li Ching - Yun Hea - Wah Pei
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Friday, October 15, 2010
happy b'day mummy =D
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be prepared ya..hehe
the ticket to KLIA book d..but due to some misunderstanding..it a bit expensive, cos me rm 418..
i was down when hear dis bt not only myself down, so i decided pay it myself =D
money can earn bck so 4gt abt it la..
sorry, i tot can be cheap bt at last so expensive..n cant cancel d..
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happy b'day mummy XD
dream cum true o..
young young always =]
thanks to all my housemate XD
Thursday, September 30, 2010
爱情~
爱情就像舞会,
教会你最初的舞步,
未必能陪你走到散场……
爱情就像听音乐,
遇到好听的,
一秒都不想留下来……
而如今只能随机播放,
等待下一首能让我心动的旋律……
等待,有时候是件幸福的事……
可是有时候无结局的等待,让人心碎……
不等了,是因为学会了放手……
可是,你不知道让你飞翔是我爱你的方式……
我的眼泪,落在你看不到的角落……
于是,我们的距离就像一起看日落的影子拉长了……
曾经尝试逃出你设下的陷阱,
走了很久,才发现……
原来还走不出这黑暗的迷宫……
偶尔,碰触到伤口……
偶尔,也会小声哭泣……
你给我的回忆,一直藏在心里……
偶尔,拿出来重温……
很自私的我,每一天都要你在我脑海里跑一趟……
也很愚蠢的,每一天都在你看不到的角落关心你……
可是我很清楚,
我们的生命线再也找不到交叉点了……
两条不碰面的平行线,只能隔着远方看你……
终究,
我们成了彼此的路人甲……
所以,
我们成了最熟悉的陌生人……
思念你的我,
希望你是幸福的!
Sunday, September 12, 2010
12/9/10
hohoho~
went to gurney with my old fren - 'ah pek'
knowing each others during 'miao xiang lin' temple..
if not mistaken, know him since 2004 ba =]
well, calling him ah pek coz he is older thn me and we use to bully each others..
and yet, he really the best and mature fren among my male fren =]
first time in my life, watch two movie in 6 hours >.<
the first movie we watch --- going the distance
the second movie ---- step up 3
thanks to him bring me to eat too..
1st time step in the shop..
the food is nice and expensive too =p
nice experience when going up stair >.<
haha..i guess his wallet is bleeding today..
erm..here would like to thanks him again and duno will he viewing my blogs or not..
anyway, thanks ya ah pek..nice to have an old fren like u ^^
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went to gurney with my old fren - 'ah pek'
knowing each others during 'miao xiang lin' temple..
if not mistaken, know him since 2004 ba =]
well, calling him ah pek coz he is older thn me and we use to bully each others..
and yet, he really the best and mature fren among my male fren =]
first time in my life, watch two movie in 6 hours >.<
the first movie we watch --- going the distance
the second movie ---- step up 3
thanks to him bring me to eat too..
1st time step in the shop..
the food is nice and expensive too =p
nice experience when going up stair >.<
haha..i guess his wallet is bleeding today..
erm..here would like to thanks him again and duno will he viewing my blogs or not..
anyway, thanks ya ah pek..nice to have an old fren like u ^^
*********** ends ************
Thursday, September 9, 2010
爱♥
Friday, August 20, 2010
appreciate ♥
i'm so so so touch..
because my line here are so so worse until wan to download even 1 video also wait till 2hour but get nothing at last..
so, i use to sms my bie ask frm his help..
surprisingly, he on9 soon and help me download around 7 video and send it to my mail in half and hour..
really appreciate it..muackx..
here, i would like to thanks another fren which also help me in such things..
a msg send it to him and soon he did manage download it very fast and send it to my mail too..
even early in the morning..
really thanks n felt so happy to have such a fren ^^
a very thanks you, Mr Ong Chong Yong
[ it's my pleasure to have a fren lk u ]
*******************************
i'm a lucky grl to have such a good bie and a good fren..
really frm my deep heart thanks to them..
and the vidoe i download all about teaching =D
not others ya =p
because my line here are so so worse until wan to download even 1 video also wait till 2hour but get nothing at last..
so, i use to sms my bie ask frm his help..
surprisingly, he on9 soon and help me download around 7 video and send it to my mail in half and hour..
really appreciate it..muackx..
here, i would like to thanks another fren which also help me in such things..
a msg send it to him and soon he did manage download it very fast and send it to my mail too..
even early in the morning..
really thanks n felt so happy to have such a fren ^^
a very thanks you, Mr Ong Chong Yong
[ it's my pleasure to have a fren lk u ]
*******************************
i'm a lucky grl to have such a good bie and a good fren..
really frm my deep heart thanks to them..
and the vidoe i download all about teaching =D
not others ya =p
Friday, August 13, 2010
♥ saja ♥
For my bf, the best bf ever in this world :
he always told me: love is not hard, just i need the patient, need the heart, then together forever is also not that matter
and i always told him : love is not as easy as u said as easy as kacang.
then he told me that : nothing in the world is easy also, but nothing is so complicated, just people make it complicated, sometime a complicated programming can be solve with just a few diagram, but some books write it in a chunk of words make u confuse; for love is still the same, as long as both couple willing to get together, live together no matter what difficulties, the love is there always; but life is always have problems and obstacles, and problem we just simplified it and make it simple, then life is easy; solving a problem have a lot lot of ways, got simple way got hard way, or some way that make u tied yourself up, "different people use different way"...
i like this words he said : " it is many thing just like our life, as we walk through the road, we will learn about it one by one just like we growing up/"
thanks to him..
and i am glad to know that he had choose the correct title of his 'research' and "proceed it " =p
~loving u~
he always told me: love is not hard, just i need the patient, need the heart, then together forever is also not that matter
and i always told him : love is not as easy as u said as easy as kacang.
then he told me that : nothing in the world is easy also, but nothing is so complicated, just people make it complicated, sometime a complicated programming can be solve with just a few diagram, but some books write it in a chunk of words make u confuse; for love is still the same, as long as both couple willing to get together, live together no matter what difficulties, the love is there always; but life is always have problems and obstacles, and problem we just simplified it and make it simple, then life is easy; solving a problem have a lot lot of ways, got simple way got hard way, or some way that make u tied yourself up, "different people use different way"...
i like this words he said : " it is many thing just like our life, as we walk through the road, we will learn about it one by one just like we growing up/"
thanks to him..
and i am glad to know that he had choose the correct title of his 'research' and "proceed it " =p
~loving u~
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
happy b'day to my bie =D
14th July..a special day for my bie..
and there is no exception for me too..
because is my bie's big day what =D
happy b'day bie..
may all your dream comes true o ♥
simple present from me to bie =D
** because of you, i learn how to cherish **
Tuesday, July 13, 2010
* emo *
i hate driving at nite..
hate class at nite..
my car..kena a bit my house gate when i try to reverse =.=
hopefully tomorrow polish it can work =}
pray for it =D
this sem really busy sem and taught sem for all of us..
assignment = teaching at class during SBE..
havta make our Bahan Bantu Mengajar and lesson plan and so on..
argh !!!!
i wish time could pass faster XD
awaiting for tomorrow our 3rd anniversary party~
** wish my daddy recover from sick soon, and too myself **
hate class at nite..
my car..kena a bit my house gate when i try to reverse =.=
hopefully tomorrow polish it can work =}
pray for it =D
this sem really busy sem and taught sem for all of us..
assignment = teaching at class during SBE..
havta make our Bahan Bantu Mengajar and lesson plan and so on..
argh !!!!
i wish time could pass faster XD
awaiting for tomorrow our 3rd anniversary party~
** wish my daddy recover from sick soon, and too myself **
Wednesday, June 30, 2010
busy~ tired~ life life life~
it has been couple of week i din update my blog already..
new sem was start and a new busy of study life had cum to say 'hello' to me already =.=
dis sem we din involved in orientation week but we involved in sesi 'kenali IPDA'..
wow~ great to see that this coming intake was a big amount (18 classes all together), 16 classes of PPISMP and 2 classes of KPLI..
And important is the number between girl and guy almost equal ^^
yesterday aftnoon, we went to school for the sesi 'kenali IPDA' and 2 ppl in one group to take the one classes cuming intake..me and yun hea take the class KPLI PSV..there are 5 indian guy and the rest was chinese + malay + indian girls..most of them were from Melaka, Sabah and Sarawak =]
the funny things is those indian guy very 'cute' because always ask me the deep deep question like did u have bf? how old are you? and so on =.=
but luckily they are so friendly and good and me n Yun Hea can handle the sesi successfully, thanks to them - teacher XD
one more interesting part is where there are one indian guy ask my hp no in case have any question, he can ask me..but the moment when he ask for my hp no, my lecturer terdengar and he straight smile and say 'wah, so fast got people ask ur hp no ah.' *.*
besides, when i am explaining to them the first station to going, the way i am talking always like to action..
thn suddenly one of the indian guy said :'jangan menari.' alamak..haha..i promise myself will try to change the way i am talking coz i dun1 nextime my student said so to me again =p
before end the sesi, the KPLI PSV student all say thanks and puji that i'm a good facilitator =] yeah~ happy to hear that..thanks for ur co-operation too~
[ all facilitator who are involved in sesi 'kenali IPDA' - some missing jor ]
haiz..going to school for the event of world record big card program =D
our maktab join the event of world record to create a super big teacher's day card and on that day, will have TV3, NTV7, Berita Hairan and so on cum to IPDA for the ulang tahun IPDA ke-20 and also Teacher's Day celebration >.<
so, i have to stop here and prepare to go school XD
new sem was start and a new busy of study life had cum to say 'hello' to me already =.=
dis sem we din involved in orientation week but we involved in sesi 'kenali IPDA'..
wow~ great to see that this coming intake was a big amount (18 classes all together), 16 classes of PPISMP and 2 classes of KPLI..
And important is the number between girl and guy almost equal ^^
yesterday aftnoon, we went to school for the sesi 'kenali IPDA' and 2 ppl in one group to take the one classes cuming intake..me and yun hea take the class KPLI PSV..there are 5 indian guy and the rest was chinese + malay + indian girls..most of them were from Melaka, Sabah and Sarawak =]
the funny things is those indian guy very 'cute' because always ask me the deep deep question like did u have bf? how old are you? and so on =.=
but luckily they are so friendly and good and me n Yun Hea can handle the sesi successfully, thanks to them - teacher XD
one more interesting part is where there are one indian guy ask my hp no in case have any question, he can ask me..but the moment when he ask for my hp no, my lecturer terdengar and he straight smile and say 'wah, so fast got people ask ur hp no ah.' *.*
besides, when i am explaining to them the first station to going, the way i am talking always like to action..
thn suddenly one of the indian guy said :'jangan menari.' alamak..haha..i promise myself will try to change the way i am talking coz i dun1 nextime my student said so to me again =p
before end the sesi, the KPLI PSV student all say thanks and puji that i'm a good facilitator =] yeah~ happy to hear that..thanks for ur co-operation too~
[ all facilitator who are involved in sesi 'kenali IPDA' - some missing jor ]
haiz..going to school for the event of world record big card program =D
our maktab join the event of world record to create a super big teacher's day card and on that day, will have TV3, NTV7, Berita Hairan and so on cum to IPDA for the ulang tahun IPDA ke-20 and also Teacher's Day celebration >.<
so, i have to stop here and prepare to go school XD
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
cooking again ♥
today help mummy cooking again..
lunch - 3 simple dishes
only realize that, the food yourself cook it will be nicer than others cook XD
[ 1st dishes : vege with carrot ]
[ 2nd dishes : chai po with tao gua ]
[ 3rd dishes : long bean with meat ]
my hand kena oil when cooking..
oh no..it's pain..
but ok la..happy with my job..
kekex ^^
lunch - 3 simple dishes
only realize that, the food yourself cook it will be nicer than others cook XD
[ 1st dishes : vege with carrot ]
[ 2nd dishes : chai po with tao gua ]
[ 3rd dishes : long bean with meat ]
my hand kena oil when cooking..
oh no..it's pain..
but ok la..happy with my job..
kekex ^^
Sunday, May 30, 2010
finally =D
yes yes ~
finally finish my sem3 exam..
hohoho dun worry about the result first and get relax during holiday!!
thanks bie for create my msn for me >>> cindy89tan@live.co.uk
everyone laugh at my email add coz of so 'special'..oh no !!
i have a new facebook account finally -D same add v my msn add..lala..happy..my previous account kena hack jor, so all of u can remove it d ^^
yesterday went to wedding dinner..
eating lot lot..nice..i love 'hu qi' so much..muahaha..thanks daddy ♥
- - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
The moment I met you, is the moment my heart is with you... The moment I with you, my heart fill with joy... The moment I love you, I belong to you forever to give joy n happiness... [frm my 4ever admire] nice huh? yes..i feel so..muahaha..thanks my forever admire..haha
~end~
finally finish my sem3 exam..
hohoho dun worry about the result first and get relax during holiday!!
thanks bie for create my msn for me >>> cindy89tan@live.co.uk
everyone laugh at my email add coz of so 'special'..oh no !!
i have a new facebook account finally -D same add v my msn add..lala..happy..my previous account kena hack jor, so all of u can remove it d ^^
yesterday went to wedding dinner..
eating lot lot..nice..i love 'hu qi' so much..muahaha..thanks daddy ♥
- - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
The moment I met you, is the moment my heart is with you... The moment I with you, my heart fill with joy... The moment I love you, I belong to you forever to give joy n happiness... [frm my 4ever admire] nice huh? yes..i feel so..muahaha..thanks my forever admire..haha
~end~
Thursday, May 13, 2010
first time..Hate !!
Hate, I am so disappointed with them !!
Argh !! angry overcome me..
Exam is coming soon and I not yet started my studies because of busying writing novel..
70,000 words needed to take part in the novel competition and the 1st prize was make me interested in it..which is rm30,000 =D
Now I can’t even finish the 70,000 words..
I will like to stop awhile and start my revision 1st..
Just now asking them to print out the book mark for teacher’s day but non of them willing to do so, everyone is busying with their works and say no need to so rush =.=
Tmr the shop will close and Sunday we had to give to all lecturer already..when they all wanna start the works? Did they thk won’t be late?
I can’t tahan so me myself alone print out 35 keping paper somemore with colour ink =.=
Luckily I did it early and send it to shop myself to laminate it, if not will not be able to take bck when sat coz uncle said need a lot of work to laminate !!
Angry..i am so angry with their attitude..
Luckily, dis sem was the last sem I become penolong..
Geram !!!
Hate it !!!!! Argh !!!!
I think i Need some time to calm down..
Argh !! angry overcome me..
Exam is coming soon and I not yet started my studies because of busying writing novel..
70,000 words needed to take part in the novel competition and the 1st prize was make me interested in it..which is rm30,000 =D
Now I can’t even finish the 70,000 words..
I will like to stop awhile and start my revision 1st..
Just now asking them to print out the book mark for teacher’s day but non of them willing to do so, everyone is busying with their works and say no need to so rush =.=
Tmr the shop will close and Sunday we had to give to all lecturer already..when they all wanna start the works? Did they thk won’t be late?
I can’t tahan so me myself alone print out 35 keping paper somemore with colour ink =.=
Luckily I did it early and send it to shop myself to laminate it, if not will not be able to take bck when sat coz uncle said need a lot of work to laminate !!
Angry..i am so angry with their attitude..
Luckily, dis sem was the last sem I become penolong..
Geram !!!
Hate it !!!!! Argh !!!!
I think i Need some time to calm down..
Monday, May 3, 2010
special days..
today me and my housemate celebrate 3 of my housemate b'day which fall on May..
three May's birthday girls : Yih Rui, Liu Jing and Cui Chan..
HAPPY B"DAY TO THREE OF YOU =D
this time b'day 'party' the main idea is from me..
this was the first time for me to do a big card and also video..
starting i 'pakat' with yun hea say that later will have to learning dancing then ask them prepared at 8pm sharp..
after that, i turn off the light and start to play the video i had make it during last week..[using one day time to complete the video]
i wish all of my housemate(7 of them) will crying when enjoying the vidoe but just some of them crying only..haha..but luckily all of them was touch ^^ it means that my mission is success..
then after the video, 'cake' is appear in front of them..they finish those fruit tak sampai 20 minute..
then the big card where the idea also from me but helped by others 5 of my housemate..
finally is the present we gives to those b'day girl..
p/s : i like the big card so much..bie said he will try to do it for me ^^ happy..coz i did it for them but i never received such special gift..haha..
here i share some of the photo taken by just now =D
[8 of us]
[the 'cake']
[3 b'day grils - yih rui, liu jing and cui chan]
[ me with liu jing ]
[ me v cui chan ]
[ me with yih rui ]
three May's birthday girls : Yih Rui, Liu Jing and Cui Chan..
HAPPY B"DAY TO THREE OF YOU =D
this time b'day 'party' the main idea is from me..
this was the first time for me to do a big card and also video..
starting i 'pakat' with yun hea say that later will have to learning dancing then ask them prepared at 8pm sharp..
after that, i turn off the light and start to play the video i had make it during last week..[using one day time to complete the video]
i wish all of my housemate(7 of them) will crying when enjoying the vidoe but just some of them crying only..haha..but luckily all of them was touch ^^ it means that my mission is success..
then after the video, 'cake' is appear in front of them..they finish those fruit tak sampai 20 minute..
then the big card where the idea also from me but helped by others 5 of my housemate..
finally is the present we gives to those b'day girl..
p/s : i like the big card so much..bie said he will try to do it for me ^^ happy..coz i did it for them but i never received such special gift..haha..
here i share some of the photo taken by just now =D
[8 of us]
[the 'cake']
[3 b'day grils - yih rui, liu jing and cui chan]
[ me with liu jing ]
[ me v cui chan ]
[ me with yih rui ]
Thursday, April 22, 2010
Bina Insan Guru
Today really tired day..
i am so surprise and feel proud of my classmate..
16 of us..we are girl..remember just girls..
our program BIG from 8am in the morning until 4pm evening..
we carrying those heavy thing like cupboard, chair, sofa, table and lot thing..
at first we have to move those thing to lori but after that we have to move those thing from hostel to the library..it's so far =.=
Besides, i have to help my classmate take the lunch..yun hea take the drink while i am taking those food..heavy..
take half way then rest then continue..
from cafe kantang to the hostel L2..my hand was so so so tired =.=
i will never forget such a "memory" day for all of us..
at home never do such works but here have to do different kind of job >.<
it train me to become more tough girl =D
PISMP PEMULIHAN KHAS(BC), sem3 really geng..
yeah..we are the best..
*thanks to those junior..they are so helpful and kind..thanks lot..really*
my beauty hand becum like this !!! so sad !!!
i am so surprise and feel proud of my classmate..
16 of us..we are girl..remember just girls..
our program BIG from 8am in the morning until 4pm evening..
we carrying those heavy thing like cupboard, chair, sofa, table and lot thing..
at first we have to move those thing to lori but after that we have to move those thing from hostel to the library..it's so far =.=
Besides, i have to help my classmate take the lunch..yun hea take the drink while i am taking those food..heavy..
take half way then rest then continue..
from cafe kantang to the hostel L2..my hand was so so so tired =.=
i will never forget such a "memory" day for all of us..
at home never do such works but here have to do different kind of job >.<
it train me to become more tough girl =D
PISMP PEMULIHAN KHAS(BC), sem3 really geng..
yeah..we are the best..
*thanks to those junior..they are so helpful and kind..thanks lot..really*
my beauty hand becum like this !!! so sad !!!
小女孩的故事之二
(如果各位之前有读到我的部落格“小女孩的故事”,就知道故事的发展了)
太好了耶!小女孩和小男孩终于再次牵手勒 =D
小女孩的命运虽然不能算是非常好,但至少比上不足比下有余噢!
之前傻傻地小女孩因为大男孩的出现就和小男孩分开了,但最后大男孩也和小女孩分开了。
庆幸的是,不懂为什么小男孩在小女孩和他分开的日子里依然爱着小女孩!
也因为这样,小女孩就顺其自然与小男孩再次一起走向幸福车站…
在一次的无意间,小女孩发现大男孩和他的女友在一起已有一段时间了…
很自然地,小女孩就算了算,结果发现大男孩和其女友是在大男孩和小女孩提出分开不到十天就开始了这段恋情!
大男孩与小女孩分开后不承认已有女友的这段恋情让小女孩有点失望…
大男孩与小女孩分开后所做的一切让小女孩觉得自己曾经做了错误的选择…(只是失望,并没有伤心)
大男孩竟然还说…
好多好多的感触不知如何说…
最重要是…
事情的同时,小女孩顿时感到非常开心,因为被甩让小女孩与小男孩再次牵手…
更值得高兴的是,知道了这件事,小女孩更加肯定…
大男孩之前就对其女友是有意识;(大家都这么认为,小女孩的第六感也是)
大男孩并不适合小女孩;
大男孩之前对于小女孩的感情不够深;
大男孩并不珍惜小女孩的一切;
大男孩对感情这东西还不够认真;(希望大男孩对现在的女友是认真的!)
至于小女孩…对于大男孩…只能说恋人以下,朋友还好的阶段…
小女孩与小男孩的这段恋情,大家都很看好,因为大家都认为小男孩虽然不是很好看,但他的确是一个好男孩 =D 【小女孩也是这样认为】
算一算,小女孩与小男孩经历的事情也算蛮多的,在一起的时间也绝对久…
但是,
小女孩昨天误会了小男孩,小女孩也掉了‘几滴’宝贵的泪…
今天,
看到小男孩的电邮,觉得好笑,气也消了 =p
大男孩:
小女孩希望你可以认真和这样爱你的女友牵手到永远,不要再伤害好女人…
小女孩永远祝福你…
小女孩永远永远都是只能是你的朋友!!(如果大男孩还想要与小女孩还保持朋友的关系)
小女孩希望在未来的日子里,大男孩永远是快乐的 =)
太好了耶!小女孩和小男孩终于再次牵手勒 =D
小女孩的命运虽然不能算是非常好,但至少比上不足比下有余噢!
之前傻傻地小女孩因为大男孩的出现就和小男孩分开了,但最后大男孩也和小女孩分开了。
庆幸的是,不懂为什么小男孩在小女孩和他分开的日子里依然爱着小女孩!
也因为这样,小女孩就顺其自然与小男孩再次一起走向幸福车站…
在一次的无意间,小女孩发现大男孩和他的女友在一起已有一段时间了…
很自然地,小女孩就算了算,结果发现大男孩和其女友是在大男孩和小女孩提出分开不到十天就开始了这段恋情!
大男孩与小女孩分开后不承认已有女友的这段恋情让小女孩有点失望…
大男孩与小女孩分开后所做的一切让小女孩觉得自己曾经做了错误的选择…(只是失望,并没有伤心)
大男孩竟然还说…
好多好多的感触不知如何说…
最重要是…
事情的同时,小女孩顿时感到非常开心,因为被甩让小女孩与小男孩再次牵手…
更值得高兴的是,知道了这件事,小女孩更加肯定…
大男孩之前就对其女友是有意识;(大家都这么认为,小女孩的第六感也是)
大男孩并不适合小女孩;
大男孩之前对于小女孩的感情不够深;
大男孩并不珍惜小女孩的一切;
大男孩对感情这东西还不够认真;(希望大男孩对现在的女友是认真的!)
至于小女孩…对于大男孩…只能说恋人以下,朋友还好的阶段…
小女孩与小男孩的这段恋情,大家都很看好,因为大家都认为小男孩虽然不是很好看,但他的确是一个好男孩 =D 【小女孩也是这样认为】
算一算,小女孩与小男孩经历的事情也算蛮多的,在一起的时间也绝对久…
但是,
小女孩昨天误会了小男孩,小女孩也掉了‘几滴’宝贵的泪…
今天,
看到小男孩的电邮,觉得好笑,气也消了 =p
大男孩:
小女孩希望你可以认真和这样爱你的女友牵手到永远,不要再伤害好女人…
小女孩永远祝福你…
小女孩永远永远都是只能是你的朋友!!(如果大男孩还想要与小女孩还保持朋友的关系)
小女孩希望在未来的日子里,大男孩永远是快乐的 =)
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
爱情♥
“相爱没有那么容易,每个人都有她的脾气 !”
有时候很在意一个人是件好事?或是坏事?
在意一个人就表示你很在乎这段感情,在乎他 - 这的却是件好事;
可对方如果因为你很在意他,就不怎么像以前酱关心你 – 这就是坏事呀 ;
想想想,想了几回…
“爱情”这两个字总让人憔悴 !
我们都希望自己所爱的人是对的人,可是你又如何知道怎样才算对呢?
有些人每天都会有一通面线话;
有些人的另一半特地一个人驱车来这里接女友或送女友回来 【要知道一个人大老远地驾车确实很孤单,离别的感受更不用说】;
人…很矛盾!
路是自己选择走出来的,可是有时我们又会犹豫自己的选择…
是我们想太多?还是我们对自己的选择不够信心?
唉…
有时一段被大家都看好的恋情最后也会让人大掉眼镜;
爱爱爱,爱了几回…
什么时候我们可以结束这不必要的烦恼?
缘分像一本书...
翻的不经意会错过童话;读得太认真又会流干眼泪 =D
有时候很在意一个人是件好事?或是坏事?
在意一个人就表示你很在乎这段感情,在乎他 - 这的却是件好事;
可对方如果因为你很在意他,就不怎么像以前酱关心你 – 这就是坏事呀 ;
想想想,想了几回…
“爱情”这两个字总让人憔悴 !
我们都希望自己所爱的人是对的人,可是你又如何知道怎样才算对呢?
有些人每天都会有一通面线话;
有些人的另一半特地一个人驱车来这里接女友或送女友回来 【要知道一个人大老远地驾车确实很孤单,离别的感受更不用说】;
人…很矛盾!
路是自己选择走出来的,可是有时我们又会犹豫自己的选择…
是我们想太多?还是我们对自己的选择不够信心?
唉…
有时一段被大家都看好的恋情最后也会让人大掉眼镜;
爱爱爱,爱了几回…
什么时候我们可以结束这不必要的烦恼?
缘分像一本书...
翻的不经意会错过童话;读得太认真又会流干眼泪 =D
Monday, April 19, 2010
人世间最难报的恩就是父母恩
[ copy from website: share it v all of u here =D ]
媳妇说:“煮淡一点你就嫌没有味道,现在煮咸一点你却说咽不下。你究竟想怎么样?”
母亲一见儿子回来,二话不说便把饭菜往嘴里送。
她怒瞪他一眼。他试了一口,马上吐出来, 儿子说:“我不是说过了吗,妈有病不能吃太咸!”
“那好!妈是你的,以后由你来煮!”媳妇怒气冲冲地回房。
儿子无奈地轻叹一声,然后对母亲说:“妈,别吃了,我去煮碗面给您?”
“仔,你是不是有话想跟妈说,是就说好了,别憋在心里!”
“妈,公司下个月升我职,我会很忙,至于老婆,她说很想出来工作,所以……”
母亲马上意识到儿子的意思:“仔,不要送妈去老人院。”声音似乎在哀求。
儿子沉默片刻,他是在寻找更好的理由。 “妈,其实老人院并没有什么不好?老婆一但工作,一定没有时间好好服侍您。老人院有吃有住有人服侍照顾, 不是比在家里好得多吗?”
“可是,阿财叔他……”
洗了澡,草草吃了一碗方便面,儿子便到书房去。他茫然地伫立于窗前,有些犹豫不决。母亲年轻便守寡,含辛茹苦将他抚养成人,供他出国读书。但她从不用年轻时的牺牲当作要胁他孝顺的筹码,反而是妻子以婚姻要胁他!真的要让母亲住老人院吗?他问自己,他有些不忍。
“可以陪你下半世的人是你老婆,难道是你妈吗?”阿财叔的儿子总是这样提醒他。
“你妈都这么老了,好命的话可以活多几年,为何不趁这几年好好孝顺她呢?树欲静而风不息,子欲养而亲不在啊!”亲戚总是这样劝他。
儿子不敢再想下去,深怕自己真的会改变初衷。晚,太阳收敛起灼热的金光,躲在山后憩息。一间建在郊外山岗的一座贵族老人院。
是的,钱用得越多,儿子才心安理得。当儿子领着母亲步入大厅时,崭新的电视机,42英寸的荧幕正播放着一部喜剧,但观众一点笑声也没有。几个衣着一样,发型一样的老妪歪歪斜斜地坐在发沙上,神情呆滞而落寞。有个老人在自言自语,有个正缓缓弯下腰,想去捡掉在地上的一块饼干吃。儿子知道母亲喜欢光亮,所以为她选了一间阳光充足的房间。从窗口望出去,树荫下,一片芳草如茵。几名护士推着坐在轮椅的老者在夕阳下散步,四周悄然寂静得令人心酸。纵是夕阳无限好,毕竟已到了黄昏,他心中低低叹息。
“妈,我……我要走了!”母亲只能点头。他走时,母亲频频挥手,她张着没有牙的嘴,苍白干燥的咀唇在嗫嚅着,一副欲语还休的样子。儿子这才注意到母亲银灰色的头发,深陷的眼窝以及打着细褶的皱脸。母亲,真的老了!
他霍然记起一则儿时旧事。那年他才6岁,母亲有事回乡,不便携他同行,于是把他寄住在阿财叔家几天。母亲临走时,他惊恐地抱着母亲的腿不肯放,伤心大声号哭道:“妈妈不要丢下我!妈妈不要走!” 最后母亲没有丢下他。他连忙离开房间,顺手把门关上,不敢回头,深恐那记忆像鬼魅似地追缠而来。
他回到家,妻子与岳母正疯狂的把母亲房里的一切扔个不亦乐乎。身高3英寸的奖杯──那是他小学作文比赛《我的母亲》第1名的胜利品!华英字典──那是母亲整个月省吃省用所买给他的第1份生日礼物!还有母亲临睡前要擦的风湿油,没有他为她擦,带去老人院又有甚么意义呢?
“够了,别再扔了!”儿子怒吼道。
“这么多垃圾,不把它扔掉,怎么放得下我的东西。” 岳母没好气地说。
“就是嘛!你赶快把你妈那张烂床给抬出去,我明天要为我妈添张新的!”
一堆童年的照片展现在儿子眼前,那是母亲带他到动物园和游乐园拍的照片。
“它们是我妈的财产,一样也不能丢!”
“你这算甚态度?对我妈这么大声,我要你向我妈道歉!” (楼主注:这算什么儿子,把自己的母亲送到养老院,然后把岳母接来住,要就一起去送,要就留自己的母亲)
“我娶你就要爱你的母亲,为甚么?嫁给我就不能爱我的母亲?”
雨后的黑夜分外冷寂,街道萧瑟,行人车辆格外稀少。一辆宝马在路上飞驰,频频闯红灯,陷黄格,呼一声又飞驰而过。那辆轿车一路奔往山岗上的那间老人院,停车直奔上楼,推开母亲卧房的门。他幽灵似地站着,母亲正抚摸着风湿痛的双腿低泣。她见到儿子手中正拿着那瓶风湿油,显然感到安慰的说:“妈忘了带,幸好你拿来!”他走到母亲身边,跪了下来。 “很晚了,妈自己擦可以了,你明天还要上班,回去吧!”
他嗫嚅片刻,终于忍不住啜泣道:“妈,对不起,请原谅我!我们回家去吧!”
~~后语~~
随着自己愈长大,看着父母亲脸庞从年轻变憔悴,头发从乌丝变白发,动作从迅捷变缓慢,多心疼!父母亲总是将最好、最宝贵的留给我们,像蜡烛不停的燃烧自己,照亮孩子!而我呢?有没有腾出一个空间给我的父母,或者只是在当我需要停泊岸时,才会想起他们……
其实父母亲要的真的不多,只是一句随意的问候「爸、妈,你们今天好吗?」随意买的宵夜,煮一顿再普通不过的晚餐,睡前帮他们盖盖被子,天冷帮他们添衣服、戴手套.... 都能让他们高兴温馨很久。有时,我常在想:我希望我的子女以后如何对我。那现在,我有没有如此对待我的父母?我相信,人是环环相扣的;现在,你如何对待你的父母;以后,你的子女就如何待你。
朋友,人世间最难报的就是父母恩,愿我们都能:以反哺之心奉敬父母,以感恩之心孝顺父母!
~共勉之~
生命不要求我们成为最好的,只要求我们作最大的努力!
老人安养院墙上发现的一篇文章
孩子!当你还很小的时候,我花了很多时间,教你慢慢用汤匙、用筷子吃东西。教你系鞋带、扣扣子、溜滑梯、教你穿衣服、梳头发、拧鼻涕。这些和你在一起的点点滴滴,是多么的令我怀念不已。所以,当我想不起来,接不上话时,请给我一点时间,等我一下,让我再想一想……极可能最后连要说什么,我也一并忘记。孩子!你忘记我们练习了好几百回,才学会的第一首娃娃歌吗?是否还记得每天总要我绞尽脑汁,去回答不知道你从哪里冒出来的吗?所以,当我重复又重复说着老掉牙的故事,哼着我孩提时代的儿歌时,体谅我。让我继续沉醉在这些回忆中吧!切望你,也能陪着我闲话家常吧!孩子,现在我常忘了扣扣子、系鞋带。吃饭时,会弄脏衣服,梳头发时手还会不停的抖,不要催促我,要对我多一点耐心和温柔,只要有你在一起,就会有很多的温暖涌上心头。
孩子!如今,我的脚站也站不稳,走也走不动。所以,请你紧紧的握着我的手,陪着我,慢慢的。就像当年一样,我带着你一步一步地走。
若为人子女也不懂得如何体谅他们,那他们便只能于痛苦中渡过余生,黑暗中逝去……
在此祝愿天下父母亲——身体健康,长命百岁 !!
媳妇说:“煮淡一点你就嫌没有味道,现在煮咸一点你却说咽不下。你究竟想怎么样?”
母亲一见儿子回来,二话不说便把饭菜往嘴里送。
她怒瞪他一眼。他试了一口,马上吐出来, 儿子说:“我不是说过了吗,妈有病不能吃太咸!”
“那好!妈是你的,以后由你来煮!”媳妇怒气冲冲地回房。
儿子无奈地轻叹一声,然后对母亲说:“妈,别吃了,我去煮碗面给您?”
“仔,你是不是有话想跟妈说,是就说好了,别憋在心里!”
“妈,公司下个月升我职,我会很忙,至于老婆,她说很想出来工作,所以……”
母亲马上意识到儿子的意思:“仔,不要送妈去老人院。”声音似乎在哀求。
儿子沉默片刻,他是在寻找更好的理由。 “妈,其实老人院并没有什么不好?老婆一但工作,一定没有时间好好服侍您。老人院有吃有住有人服侍照顾, 不是比在家里好得多吗?”
“可是,阿财叔他……”
洗了澡,草草吃了一碗方便面,儿子便到书房去。他茫然地伫立于窗前,有些犹豫不决。母亲年轻便守寡,含辛茹苦将他抚养成人,供他出国读书。但她从不用年轻时的牺牲当作要胁他孝顺的筹码,反而是妻子以婚姻要胁他!真的要让母亲住老人院吗?他问自己,他有些不忍。
“可以陪你下半世的人是你老婆,难道是你妈吗?”阿财叔的儿子总是这样提醒他。
“你妈都这么老了,好命的话可以活多几年,为何不趁这几年好好孝顺她呢?树欲静而风不息,子欲养而亲不在啊!”亲戚总是这样劝他。
儿子不敢再想下去,深怕自己真的会改变初衷。晚,太阳收敛起灼热的金光,躲在山后憩息。一间建在郊外山岗的一座贵族老人院。
是的,钱用得越多,儿子才心安理得。当儿子领着母亲步入大厅时,崭新的电视机,42英寸的荧幕正播放着一部喜剧,但观众一点笑声也没有。几个衣着一样,发型一样的老妪歪歪斜斜地坐在发沙上,神情呆滞而落寞。有个老人在自言自语,有个正缓缓弯下腰,想去捡掉在地上的一块饼干吃。儿子知道母亲喜欢光亮,所以为她选了一间阳光充足的房间。从窗口望出去,树荫下,一片芳草如茵。几名护士推着坐在轮椅的老者在夕阳下散步,四周悄然寂静得令人心酸。纵是夕阳无限好,毕竟已到了黄昏,他心中低低叹息。
“妈,我……我要走了!”母亲只能点头。他走时,母亲频频挥手,她张着没有牙的嘴,苍白干燥的咀唇在嗫嚅着,一副欲语还休的样子。儿子这才注意到母亲银灰色的头发,深陷的眼窝以及打着细褶的皱脸。母亲,真的老了!
他霍然记起一则儿时旧事。那年他才6岁,母亲有事回乡,不便携他同行,于是把他寄住在阿财叔家几天。母亲临走时,他惊恐地抱着母亲的腿不肯放,伤心大声号哭道:“妈妈不要丢下我!妈妈不要走!” 最后母亲没有丢下他。他连忙离开房间,顺手把门关上,不敢回头,深恐那记忆像鬼魅似地追缠而来。
他回到家,妻子与岳母正疯狂的把母亲房里的一切扔个不亦乐乎。身高3英寸的奖杯──那是他小学作文比赛《我的母亲》第1名的胜利品!华英字典──那是母亲整个月省吃省用所买给他的第1份生日礼物!还有母亲临睡前要擦的风湿油,没有他为她擦,带去老人院又有甚么意义呢?
“够了,别再扔了!”儿子怒吼道。
“这么多垃圾,不把它扔掉,怎么放得下我的东西。” 岳母没好气地说。
“就是嘛!你赶快把你妈那张烂床给抬出去,我明天要为我妈添张新的!”
一堆童年的照片展现在儿子眼前,那是母亲带他到动物园和游乐园拍的照片。
“它们是我妈的财产,一样也不能丢!”
“你这算甚态度?对我妈这么大声,我要你向我妈道歉!” (楼主注:这算什么儿子,把自己的母亲送到养老院,然后把岳母接来住,要就一起去送,要就留自己的母亲)
“我娶你就要爱你的母亲,为甚么?嫁给我就不能爱我的母亲?”
雨后的黑夜分外冷寂,街道萧瑟,行人车辆格外稀少。一辆宝马在路上飞驰,频频闯红灯,陷黄格,呼一声又飞驰而过。那辆轿车一路奔往山岗上的那间老人院,停车直奔上楼,推开母亲卧房的门。他幽灵似地站着,母亲正抚摸着风湿痛的双腿低泣。她见到儿子手中正拿着那瓶风湿油,显然感到安慰的说:“妈忘了带,幸好你拿来!”他走到母亲身边,跪了下来。 “很晚了,妈自己擦可以了,你明天还要上班,回去吧!”
他嗫嚅片刻,终于忍不住啜泣道:“妈,对不起,请原谅我!我们回家去吧!”
~~后语~~
随着自己愈长大,看着父母亲脸庞从年轻变憔悴,头发从乌丝变白发,动作从迅捷变缓慢,多心疼!父母亲总是将最好、最宝贵的留给我们,像蜡烛不停的燃烧自己,照亮孩子!而我呢?有没有腾出一个空间给我的父母,或者只是在当我需要停泊岸时,才会想起他们……
其实父母亲要的真的不多,只是一句随意的问候「爸、妈,你们今天好吗?」随意买的宵夜,煮一顿再普通不过的晚餐,睡前帮他们盖盖被子,天冷帮他们添衣服、戴手套.... 都能让他们高兴温馨很久。有时,我常在想:我希望我的子女以后如何对我。那现在,我有没有如此对待我的父母?我相信,人是环环相扣的;现在,你如何对待你的父母;以后,你的子女就如何待你。
朋友,人世间最难报的就是父母恩,愿我们都能:以反哺之心奉敬父母,以感恩之心孝顺父母!
~共勉之~
生命不要求我们成为最好的,只要求我们作最大的努力!
老人安养院墙上发现的一篇文章
孩子!当你还很小的时候,我花了很多时间,教你慢慢用汤匙、用筷子吃东西。教你系鞋带、扣扣子、溜滑梯、教你穿衣服、梳头发、拧鼻涕。这些和你在一起的点点滴滴,是多么的令我怀念不已。所以,当我想不起来,接不上话时,请给我一点时间,等我一下,让我再想一想……极可能最后连要说什么,我也一并忘记。孩子!你忘记我们练习了好几百回,才学会的第一首娃娃歌吗?是否还记得每天总要我绞尽脑汁,去回答不知道你从哪里冒出来的吗?所以,当我重复又重复说着老掉牙的故事,哼着我孩提时代的儿歌时,体谅我。让我继续沉醉在这些回忆中吧!切望你,也能陪着我闲话家常吧!孩子,现在我常忘了扣扣子、系鞋带。吃饭时,会弄脏衣服,梳头发时手还会不停的抖,不要催促我,要对我多一点耐心和温柔,只要有你在一起,就会有很多的温暖涌上心头。
孩子!如今,我的脚站也站不稳,走也走不动。所以,请你紧紧的握着我的手,陪着我,慢慢的。就像当年一样,我带着你一步一步地走。
若为人子女也不懂得如何体谅他们,那他们便只能于痛苦中渡过余生,黑暗中逝去……
在此祝愿天下父母亲——身体健康,长命百岁 !!
porridge
cooking myself porridge as my dinner =D
1st time eating porridge here and some more is as my dinner =.=
before is cook for housemate, now is for myself..haha
porridge is good and it's taste nice ^^
today my housemate are going to watch " ice kacang puppy love" , left me, wah pei, liu jing and yun hea at home..
we din go and watch this movie, coz some of us was sick, some of us tired and so on..haha
anyway, today is really tired day =( but enjoy it =D
Sunday, April 18, 2010
happy b'day bobo =D
happy b'day to Wei Terng, welcome to 21st o =p haha
going to find b'day boy without telling him..
then we go to perlis by using a map which had drawn by Kok Pin and Liu Jing, thanks to they two =D
the road to perlis very far and can see all the 'paddy field' along the road and less food stall -.-
when i reach the Wang Ulu, then i call him asking his address bt thn he telling me that he is at Kampung Wai..and i duno how to go there, so asking help from Jay Loon =D
thanks to him sengaja cum Wang Ulu to bring me to Kampung Wai because my b'day boy going there revision..haha
here would like to take this opportunity to thanks :
Wah pei, Siew Mei, Yih Rui, Cui Chan and Li Ching..who acc me go..
Jay Loon for bring me far away from Wang Ulu to Kampung Wai then straigh go back for revision..
Happy B'day Wei Terng and goodluck in ur exam =D huggie
*hope u like dis surprise and the present*
[ everyone tot i had been to perlis before..i wanna said that, this REALLY was the 1st time i going to perlis,k !! for my god bro =D ]
Saturday, April 17, 2010
520 ♥
suddenly 'you' comes to my mind..
thanks you for..
u find time to accompany me chatting on skype/msn although u have to study ;
u always full fill what i need although ur mouth on the spot say dun1/ no ;
u never blame me or angry with me although i did so to u ;
u can feel it when ever i am angry-ing or un happy-ing, then u will trying to make me happy ;
i love you, where..
u always remember every words i had said ;
u always listen to me 1st before u going to tell me about ur story over there ;
u always trying to tolerate with naughty me ;
in ur planing always got me inside ;
every time chatting with u, i am in happy mood ;
you are always there for me..always..
[ although u are nt a handsome guy where i always look for =p ]
i am more n more deeply in love with u, bie ^^
Friday, April 16, 2010
心情札记有感而发之九
Monday, March 15, 2010
sweet ^^
today while i was reading novel, my fren suddenly add me in thier conversation...
wow..finally my housemate get in a relationship already!congrate to her and ofcoz to the luckily guy who finally win her ^^
from the way she tell me the story line, i can feel the happiness on her face..so sweet the way her bf asking her to be his gf..
the guy : xxx小姐, 我xxx(the guy name) 用真情诚意的对你,是真心喜欢你,希望你可以给我机会在你身边保护你,爱护你,你愿意接受我吗?
guess..what the response the girl give? surely is yes i do..haha
they started on ytday, also was 白色情人节..such a special day ^^ few days ago i am just asking her and telling her that wish to get a good news when reopen school..surprisely..get it today..haha..congrate to my dear frenz..
in the others hand, i also knowing that my junior was broke up v little junior after fews month..so here i would like to say to every couple..please always appreciate and love the one who u tackle hard hard!!
~u always on my mind, all day jz all the time, u're everythg to me, brightest star to let me see..i love u till i die, deep as sea wide as sky, the beauty of our love paints rainbows everywhere we go..need u all my life, u're my hope u're my pride..may life be our love paradise..~
while listing to this song..bie appear on my mind ^^ kekex
Saturday, March 6, 2010
KOT ke-18
" SPORT is part of my life "
3 March 2010 is my maktab Kejohanan Olahraga Tahunan (KOT)ke 18..
this year i take part in 400m and 4x400m as usual..
surprisely, both also i get 1st..
but my leg was very pain because long time no exercise jor >.<
thanks to my classmate shout my name while i am running, they all shout ' cindy,jia you!cindy, jia you! ' haha..a strong strength suddenly come out while listen to their shout =.=
at the beginning of running they shout it out, than run till 100m more again, junior shouted my name pula..before run to the ending somemore heard my name again..thanks to all..you all make my days brighten up..haha
my classmate some of them take part in dancing {KOT open ceremony} which is - ang wah pei, lim siew mei, lim chou yun, lim miaw hoey and tan liu jing..
some of them involved in Pandu Puteri Kadet and Kadet Remaja Sekolah matching..
yeah..we are the best..rumah biru was the winner at the overall ^^
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
心情札记有感而发之八
太好了,本小姐第一次做媒人就成功了 =p
男的-绅士风范+家境不错...是我2006年认识到现在的朋友;
女的-漂亮的脸孔+聪明的头脑...是我中学的好朋友...成绩可是顶呱呱的噢!
女的生病了,男的竟然驱车从槟城拿着自己煮的凉茶到UUM 给女的 !
男的真得非常细心,又很大方,至少在我面前或和我出去时不会表现出大男人主义 =)
曾经朋友问我为何不选择男的...
其实,感觉这东西不是说有就有 !
有时你遇到一个你喜欢的人,但对方对你没感觉;或者反倒来说,你遇到一个非常喜欢你的人,但你对对方没有好感...
对对方没好感不表示对方是一个很差的男生哦,只是你从来没有想和对方‘友达以上,恋人未满’的情形罢了...
看见他们在一起了,衷心希望他们的爱情可以长长九九因为毕竟都是初恋嘛!
当然,更希望当他们遇到挫折/发生小争执时,不要轻易说放弃!
‘好不容易牵手了,请不要随意放手’...毕竟一生中能遇到相爱的恋人的确不容易啊!
虽然说现在的年轻人谈恋爱就像吃快餐一样方便,但...有例外的噢!
不是所有的人还玩不够,不是所有的人酱花心,不是所有的人怕别人知道自己有了另一伴...
我相信我的朋友有想要稳定下来的感觉...
祝福你们,我的朋友♥
男的-绅士风范+家境不错...是我2006年认识到现在的朋友;
女的-漂亮的脸孔+聪明的头脑...是我中学的好朋友...成绩可是顶呱呱的噢!
女的生病了,男的竟然驱车从槟城拿着自己煮的凉茶到UUM 给女的 !
男的真得非常细心,又很大方,至少在我面前或和我出去时不会表现出大男人主义 =)
曾经朋友问我为何不选择男的...
其实,感觉这东西不是说有就有 !
有时你遇到一个你喜欢的人,但对方对你没感觉;或者反倒来说,你遇到一个非常喜欢你的人,但你对对方没有好感...
对对方没好感不表示对方是一个很差的男生哦,只是你从来没有想和对方‘友达以上,恋人未满’的情形罢了...
看见他们在一起了,衷心希望他们的爱情可以长长九九因为毕竟都是初恋嘛!
当然,更希望当他们遇到挫折/发生小争执时,不要轻易说放弃!
‘好不容易牵手了,请不要随意放手’...毕竟一生中能遇到相爱的恋人的确不容易啊!
虽然说现在的年轻人谈恋爱就像吃快餐一样方便,但...有例外的噢!
不是所有的人还玩不够,不是所有的人酱花心,不是所有的人怕别人知道自己有了另一伴...
我相信我的朋友有想要稳定下来的感觉...
祝福你们,我的朋友♥
Sunday, February 14, 2010
valentine's day..
carry a heart that never hates,
carry a smile that never fades,
carry a touch that never hurts,
and always..
carry a relationship that never breaks !
chinese new year also valentine's day..
here wishing all couple have a sweet and nice valentine's day..
HAPPY VALENTINE, BIE ^^
p/s : appreciate your life partner always..38 years later only have such special day which is cny and valentine = same day like this year..
Saturday, February 13, 2010
*wink wink*
Friday, February 12, 2010
21 岁咯..
这些就是我21岁生日当天所得到的礼物,谢谢大家的祝福和惊喜!
当天的我掉下感动的眼泪,在这里尤其是要谢谢我的好室友们!
thanks for those who post the b'day card to me, thanks to you..
thanks to my love..thanks for your call and ur card..although just a card but i am jealous the card la..
feel like that card is so glad because can and got chance to sit aeroplane tim =p haha..
thanks to ur parents also for the new year card, abit surprise for me but happy ^^ haha..
happy chinese new year to everyone and also happy valentine's day for those couple [included bie] =)
aza aza fighting..
gambate..
Monday, February 8, 2010
我的♥声
无惧满途荆棘,因有父母的扶持 ;
无忧世情险恶,因有父母的指导 ;
无畏人生挫折,因有父母的鼓舞 ;
伟大的父爱母爱,又岂是儿女小小心意报答得了呢?
2010年,我终于21岁了...
21岁的感觉真的好棒哦,里面夹参着兴奋,悲哀,不舍等心情...
在这过去的21年里,真的要感谢爸爸妈妈...
没有他们,就没有今天的我!
23年前的某月某天,
他们含辛茹苦生下了我和早我两年出生的哥哥…
感谢爸妈一路来所给予的照顾+包容+耐心+扶持+教育等...
让我有机会…
感受到亲情的温暖和友情的可贵,以及爱情中的甜蜜与曾经的流泪…
经历过风风雨雨,让我的人生更加丰富…
虽然我…
没有前凸后翘的身材,但至少我很满意我现在的身形…
没有含着金钥匙出生,但至少我很庆幸拥有小康之家…
没有他人的多才多艺,但至少我很满意现有的小智慧…
没有他人所有的聪慧,但至少我庆幸自己前途有保障…
谢谢您,
爸爸妈妈,谢谢您给的爱 !
我的朋友,谢谢您的关怀 !
我的爱人,谢谢您的呵护 !
无忧世情险恶,因有父母的指导 ;
无畏人生挫折,因有父母的鼓舞 ;
伟大的父爱母爱,又岂是儿女小小心意报答得了呢?
2010年,我终于21岁了...
21岁的感觉真的好棒哦,里面夹参着兴奋,悲哀,不舍等心情...
在这过去的21年里,真的要感谢爸爸妈妈...
没有他们,就没有今天的我!
23年前的某月某天,
他们含辛茹苦生下了我和早我两年出生的哥哥…
感谢爸妈一路来所给予的照顾+包容+耐心+扶持+教育等...
让我有机会…
感受到亲情的温暖和友情的可贵,以及爱情中的甜蜜与曾经的流泪…
经历过风风雨雨,让我的人生更加丰富…
虽然我…
没有前凸后翘的身材,但至少我很满意我现在的身形…
没有含着金钥匙出生,但至少我很庆幸拥有小康之家…
没有他人的多才多艺,但至少我很满意现有的小智慧…
没有他人所有的聪慧,但至少我庆幸自己前途有保障…
谢谢您,
爸爸妈妈,谢谢您给的爱 !
我的朋友,谢谢您的关怀 !
我的爱人,谢谢您的呵护 !
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
繁,烦,凡...
要当上一个好领袖或领导者确实不容易,更别说要当一个大家心中的好人...
很多时候...
在你还来不及预测下一秒会发生什么事,事情转眼间就发生了!
在你真心想解决一件让大家都方便的事,你的好意会带来一些人不必要的麻烦!
在你打从心底地真心关心一个人的时候,也许会造成他人的误解因为时间不对!
在你真的不想伤害彼此之间感情的时候,有些人就会乘机觉得你好欺负就为了自己利益伤害了你!
所以...
要配合大家,
要做到大家心中的完美,
要让大家可以愉快相处,
要让事情可以简单的解决,
的却不容易...
人生中,能遇到一个知心真心的朋友也确实不容易...
遇到了要好好珍惜,因为一旦错过了,再回头已是后悔莫及了...
但,其实...
原来要出人头地很简单,只要吃点亏就可以了...
原来要拥有漂亮很简单,只要少生气就可以了...
原来要正正成功很简单,只要从一数到十不跳过就可以了...
原来掌握命运的方法很简单,只要远离懒惰就可以了...
原来脱离承重的负担很简单,只要放弃固执成见就可以了...
原来快乐其实很简单,只要拥有少一点就可以了...
很多时候...
在你还来不及预测下一秒会发生什么事,事情转眼间就发生了!
在你真心想解决一件让大家都方便的事,你的好意会带来一些人不必要的麻烦!
在你打从心底地真心关心一个人的时候,也许会造成他人的误解因为时间不对!
在你真的不想伤害彼此之间感情的时候,有些人就会乘机觉得你好欺负就为了自己利益伤害了你!
所以...
要配合大家,
要做到大家心中的完美,
要让大家可以愉快相处,
要让事情可以简单的解决,
的却不容易...
人生中,能遇到一个知心真心的朋友也确实不容易...
遇到了要好好珍惜,因为一旦错过了,再回头已是后悔莫及了...
但,其实...
原来要出人头地很简单,只要吃点亏就可以了...
原来要拥有漂亮很简单,只要少生气就可以了...
原来要正正成功很简单,只要从一数到十不跳过就可以了...
原来掌握命运的方法很简单,只要远离懒惰就可以了...
原来脱离承重的负担很简单,只要放弃固执成见就可以了...
原来快乐其实很简单,只要拥有少一点就可以了...
Sunday, January 17, 2010
spaghetti ^^
my housemate - @ yih rui @
she really a lady where she can go in kitchen and also well done out of kitchen..
one of the perfect girl..important is no temper, helpful, kind, pretty..
attention please..she have a nice and loving bf already..all of you no more any hope already ya =p
today, she cooks spaghetti for us..
wow..i can smell it when i am at upstair keeping my things..
so you all can imagine how nice the spaghetti is already, right?..
between, you know what?
the soup of that spaghetti..she do it with her bf !!
so sweet huh?! yea..really make all of us jealous i think..haha
thanks to her..let us have such chance to taste such a nice food which i never tried it before..we all finish it within 10 minutes (included me)..haha
i think if got also is my 1st love cook it for me..
but it is different with yih rui one..
yih rui's spaghetti is white soup while my 1st love is tomato soup..haha
i found out that it is nt easy to make it nicely because the soup have to keep an eye all the time while boil it so that make sure the soup will not cook over time =)
firstly, put on about half butter on it [ see how much you are going to cook ] ..
then, boil it until the butter become liquid, pour about half bottle of milk and boil it again..[ make sure concentrate on it ]
after that, put the 'loh' inside the soup (in hokkien, make the soup become thick)
finally add all those ingredience you want..[ hot dog, mushroom, prown, ham etc ]
congrate..well done..spaghetti appear infront of you ^^
*when only i can cook it with bie? haha..or bie going to cook it for me? blekz..still remember this aftnoon when i tell my mom about yih rui going to prepare us spaghetti somemore is cook the soup with her bf..dad said i can cook with mom but i answer them prefer cook with bf..am i bad? haha..actually, i will cook with bf then let mom and dad give marks la..muahaha..do not worry la..i will not forget my lovely parents even have or no have bf ^^
Friday, January 15, 2010
cooking..
because of mummy are busying with her works so i decided to cook for today..
cook for mummy and daddy ^^
finally my result is : 3 vege 1 soup
do not know my cooking skill pass or not =.=
haha..but for myself..
after having my dishes, i feel ok wor..
although not as good as hotel but than got home n warm de feel..blekz..
cook for mummy and daddy ^^
finally my result is : 3 vege 1 soup
do not know my cooking skill pass or not =.=
haha..but for myself..
after having my dishes, i feel ok wor..
although not as good as hotel but than got home n warm de feel..blekz..
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